“You never get over it. But you get to where it doesn’t bother you so much.”
The Virgin Suicides by Jeffrey Eugenides (via fotre)

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We all know that feeling, vending machine

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and it was touch / feel me breathe in
go on and touch, don’t think too deep in
don’t be so scared of the things you love  []

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Anonymous asked:

Sammi could I have some advice? I'm with a guy and I don't feel good enough for him, he's gorgeous and I'm average at best, he's like super fit and I don't even have a flat stomach. When we're out and I see other girls who are prettier looking at him, it really upsets me, do you know how I can be more comfortable with myself?



Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you see him as gorgeous and he sees you as gorgeous too, not everything is in our bodies/faces, he loves you for who you are like you do him - he might even think the same if a hot guy looks at you too!

With the other girls though, let it go, it’s life that there’s going to be other girls around but that in no way means that he fancies them or would ever make a move on someone else. What do you like about yourself? Show that off, feel good about it, don’t beat yourself up. Self confidence takes time but the main thing is to not compare yourself, no one else can be you x

I think the most important thing to do in life is to be uncomfortable. Because that’s where you grow. Tell the beautiful stranger that you think he’s beautiful. Sing at the damn karaoke bar. Pick dare over truth. Run a stop sign at 2 a.m. and see what happens. Cry in the movie theater. Steal a kiss, and throw it in your pocket.

And then run back home.

10 Old Fashioned Dating Habits We Should Make Cool Again

  • 1. Coming to the door to pick someone up.
  • 2. Trying to dress really nicely for a date.
  • 3. Bringing flowers or other tokens of affection to the first date.
  • 4. Going dancing that’s not grinding on a grimy club floor.
  • 5. Straightforwardly asking someone out and not calling it “hanging out.”
  • 6. Additionally, being clear about when you’re “going steady.”
  • 7. Romantic gestures like writing poems.
  • 8. Turning electronics off and just being with one another.
  • 9. The general concept of asking permission for things.
  • 10. Not assuming sex is to be had at any point in time.
  • by Kate Bailey